25 October 2009

Ooooh.

With all the research and reading I've been doing, it's easy for me to feel a bit disconnected from life as we know it and also what is going on in the pop culture world.

Getting disconnected, unfortunately is easy for me to do and I don't like it, especially when I let myself get caught up in the "enough" spiral: What I am doing is not enough. (I roll my eyes just thinking about it.) So, from time to time, I hit bottom and have to re-evaluate, re-examine and replenish my well, rest and recuperate.

Here I sit.


I have several wells that got filled today:

My songwriting well
My guitar-playing/practicing well
My singing well
My special walks around the neighborhood with QB well
Loving on my fuzzy kitty well
My sleeping in well
My quiet time well

Namely my "indie rock well" has not been fed at all lately and I was excited to find this Portland, OR band from Ali Edwards' blog, which was mentioned in one of my all-time favorite blogs, Ordinary Courage, authored by Brene Brown. The band is called Blind Pilot and I'm in love!

Several months back, I set two very strong intentions and they were: writing and performing. During my current renewing phase, I am re-intentioning my previous intentions. Yes, that's right - I'm going to coin a new term and have my own re-intention intentioning session. It will ensure that I can play the guitar until the tips of my fingers are sore and calloused, sing my heart out for hours at a time, connect with other artists, and designate quiet time in which to write, darn it. I also want to find a few people who want to be in a band and travel with me. I'm going to work on that for next year - my own little tour through the South and beyond.

Coming soon will be more blogs about Mississippi travels along with the interviews and video footage we've been gathering from the Delta.

22 October 2009

Arty, Owlie Wedthings

Now that invitations have officially gone out, I'm ok with posting the real thing below. They turned out so well! There is a man here we know through the Crossroads Film Society who owns about two or three old (seriously, old) letterpress machines and we found the owl face in one of his dingbat books. One of QB's friends at work designed the RSVP card and the map for us - and he did a great job.

I, personally, love owls
because I've had a couple of run-ins with one in the neighborhood while I was doing a lot of my inner transition work and intensive life coaching last fall. QB and I saw one flying through the trees in our neighborhood park, so our little Hugo is around and watching over us. We think owls are great woodsy creatures and perfect for a fall wedding.

Also, here is what I've been diligently working on the past couple of weeks, so that people will find pretty invitations in their mailbox...I mixed two ink colors together to get a pretty brown metallic ink, bought a calligraphy pen set, a small paint brush to fill the resevoir of the nib and practiced a good bit first. Naturally, my technique became better the more invitations I wrote, but overall I'm proud of how they turned out and got lots of compliments.



Our "guestbook" at the reception is a great idea that QB came up with, which is for people to sign cards and "mail" them to us. That is a nod to his mom and step-dad (and other family members, as a matter of fact) who both work at the P.O. We bought a standard mailbox at Wal-Mart and my idea was to get vintage postcards off of Ebay, so that they could write special messages to us and stick them in the mailbox.

Below is the message:

My sign initially started out on one side of a Manila folder (above) and I was wondering if maybe I could cut it with pinking shears with a pattern, but then an idea popped in my head! I've been cutting out owl shapes from sheet music that I plan on hanging at the reception...why not cut out an owl shape for this sign as well? I had to draw and adjust for the size, but unconsciously I had written everything in a shape conducive to the owl shape! What fun! So, here he is! Isn't he lovely? :)

20 October 2009

The Moment I've Been Waiting For! (Almost)

I'm really excited about our engagement shoot!

Last week, it rained all day solid on Monday, which effectively nixed our engagement picture shoot. There was a very specific window of time during which we could take the pictures because of the rain forecast during the week and QB being out of town during the part where it completely clears up and turns lovely…of course!

Wednesday afternoon we took advantage of slightly overcast skies – compared to dark, rainy skies – and a timid sun peaking through the clouds to visit the fair for our engagement pictures.

Rather than being cooler outside, it was a bit humid (why am I surprised?!) but a nice breeze was blowing so that helped matters tremendously.


We had such a fun time finding interesting, colorful shots on the midway, next to Ferris wheel, carousels and roller coasters. There wasn’t a huge crowd but of course everyone stared a little bit because, well, you have to make out for the camera and be disgustingly cute and lovey-dovey. Over the past year, we have both noticed that more often than not our cheesy lovey-ness disgusts people as it is, so we threw caution to the wind and had a great time! Erin is such an incredible photographer and it seemed like she had a blast. She always photographs colors really well, has a keen sense of lighting - and the state fair is the best place for lots of cheery, bright color.

I wore a pair of red and white striped flats that I claimed from my Mom’s closet during a visit a few weeks ago! They were cute and I had to have them.


The photos are fantastic and she did a wonderful job...we are getting a little Freudian flack and Carnie sex references about the corn dog pic, though!! (not posted here...haha)



(Photos by the lovely and talented Erin Fults below)


For a few more pictures, check out her blog post.
If you would like to post these on your wedding website,
email me: anna (at) gritsandsoul [dot] com or erin, of course.

15 October 2009

Happy Birthday QB! From Me, with lots of love.

Today is QB's birthday!

His flight landed in California about an hour ago where he is attending and working a conference in Long Beach. I miss him already and am glad that he gets a terrific birthday present of enjoying the lovely Pacific Coast weather while we folks in Mississippi have a consistently rainy 75° and a sustained humidity level of ungodly proportions.

Did someone upstairs not get the memo? It's October 15!! Autumn, anyone?

Anyway, speaking of October 15th and my favorite person's birthday, we had a special, early birthday dinner at home a couple of nights ago. I bought a bottle of this incredible Pinot Noir – the name escapes me at the moment. For those in Jackson, it's at Kat's Wine and is the one they are upselling like the dickens, but it's tasty!


I made steamed veggies and Dressed Up Bacon Mac and Cheese. It was delicious and so rich.

I got excited because part of the recipe calls for a roux, mixed in with sautéed onion, bacon, bacon drippings and garlic, which is then mixed into the pasta and cheese mixture. Now, that was divine, dahlin'. The first and last time I made a roux was at Thanksgiving when I made a German potato salad out of the cookbook You Are Where You Eat (by Elsa Hahne, University Press of Mississippi), which has some delicious recipes. All that to say, the roux smelled so good and was the tipping point from regular mac and cheese to almost-make-you-sick-it's-so-good mac and cheese.


Visit Mississippi

I want to draw your attention to our "Visit Mississippi blog." I will be posting Culinary Trail video interviews, pictures and more. The first set of highlights include Yazoo City, Jackson, Indianola and Cleveland. It will be up soon!

My co-worker, Daniel Ethridge, is currently on an exciting trip to 12 Mississippi cities in 9 days and will also be blogging about his travels.

He is working with Bridal Guide Magazine and Jackson's Convention and Visitor's Bureau to create HD 360 interactive panoramics of 44 (wedding) locations around the state.

13 October 2009

Mother-in-Law

The itineraries for the Delta Culinary Trail are being proofed by talented and informed minds as we speak. They will read my SFD and send it back with red marks and hopefully a pat on the back. The next step is to come up with a brief glossary of food terms for those not acquainted with Southern, more specifically, Mississippi food stuffs. My body feels similarly to what I might imagine patients with Post Traumatic Stress symptoms might experience in the aftermath of a major event. I mean that with unconditional love for this project, naturally. The most important thing is, is I DID IT and I’m proud of myself because it was the biggest writing project (in my life) to date. It is also one that is close to my heart, after all: A labor of love for Mississippi food and cultural heritage. After eking out close to 20,000 words culled from research material, interviews and travels, a tourism experience was birthed from tales of Mississippi history, folklore, tradition and personal experience. I have to admit my system feels shaky after such a purge. Overall, I am proud and it was a terrific experience. Only four more regions to go!

Now, to the real point of this post: Last night QB and I made the famous Chicago “Mother-in-Law” sandwich. For those not familiar with the Mother-in-Law sandwich or the Mississippi Delta tradition of the “hot tamale,” allow me a minute to share the tale.

The Delta hot tamale’s origins began around the turn of the 20th century when migrant Hispanic laborers worked in the fields during fall cotton-picking season along with the African-American hired hands. The cornmeal mixture encased the tamale and kept it insulated. This ensured a warm lunch instead cold food by the lunchtime hour arrived.

Before the migrant workers went back to Texas, the recipe was given to black friends who adapted the meat and spices to suit their taste. They are “hot tamales” by locals because of their spicy flavor and the orangey-red color they become from the seasoned water in which they are boiled, not steamed like their Mexican counterparts. Hot tamales traditionally come in a string-tied bundle of three individually wrapped in either a corn husk or parchment paper. Mississippians normally spread their tamale on a cracker and crumble up the crackers in tamale juice for good eatin’.

* * * * *

The Great Migration began in the early 20th century as African-Americans moved to the urban North seeking for relief from racial discrimination, and holding on to the hope of better employment opportunities. During the 1930s and 1940s, Chicago witnessed the largest flux of this migration and it was during this time that the enormous influence upon every aspect of cultural life was altered by the Southern sensibilities, most notably music and cuisine. An example of Mississippi traditions that hopped the Mason-Dixon Line is the Mother-in-Law sandwich: a tamale in a hotdog bun smothered with chili, peppers and onions, or the tamale sundae, a tamale in a bowl of chili.

So there you have it.

We went to the store with another supper option in mind, until he mentioned wanting to get the fixins for a Mother-in-Law. I said, “That sounds good. Let’s do it tonight!” So we picked up the chili, hotdog buns and cheddar cheese.

The next stop was Tony’s Tamales on Woodrow Wilson, an old fast food joint turned “tamale central.” We placed our order, 1 dozen hot and ½ dozen mild, at the drive-thru and circled around to the pick-up window. When hungry, we tend to go overboard (but they made for a good lunch today) but that’s beside the point! I asked the gentleman at the window if they hand-rolled their tamales or used a machine. He replied they use a machine to make the tamales but put them in the corn shucks by hand. Sounds like a winner!

QB and I got home and got to work. You know it’s good when grease is seeping through to the bag…juss sayin’.




He heated up the chili and buns while I chopped onions.
Hot tamales on a hotdog bun and covered with chili. Trust me. It's GOOD!
I must admit my skepticism about an already "breaded" tamale surrounded by more bread. But the difference in taste and consistencies kept it from being an overwhelmingly bready experience. However, that's just my personal opinion and palate.
The finished product with cheese and green onions. Yes, it was messy.
Have lots of napkins at hand. I always need more than the average person as it is.



You'll have to excuse my liberal amount of sour cream. It seemed like such a good idea and it was! I should feel guilty but I don't...yet. The one thing we forgot was the peppers but that was alright because the tamales were spicy enough without them.


As for my real-life future mother-in-law, she is terrific, as are my other future in-laws! The trip to Dallas was fun and the bridal shower was lovely. I enjoyed seeing the Texas Star lighting up at dusk as we drove by on the interstate. I made a pact with myself that QB and I would go to the State Fair of Texas next year!

08 October 2009

150th Anniversary of the Mississippi State Fair

The countdown to the QB/AK wedding is in full swing with only 51 days to go! Wow.


We're so excited and I get a little misty-eyed just thinking about it. We still have a caterer and florist to book and will do that next week at the very latest.


My Mom and I will be burning up the asphalt this weekend on our way to Dallas for my bridal shower, hosted by QB's mother and close friend. I always love visiting his family and am a very lucky gal to have such terrific in-laws like them.


Another special event coming up is our engagement shoot on Monday. We absolutely love our photographer, Erin, a talented and super sweet lady to whom we given full creative license. I e-mailed her a few weeks ago and asked, "What do you think about having our engagement shoot at the state fair?" The idea thrilled her to no end and added to our pre-wedding giddiness.

This year marks the Mississippi State Fair's 150th Anniversary, of which I was unaware when we decided to take photos there. That makes it all the more special. I'm a Memphis/Mid-South Fair girl, which has sadly changed to a new location this year. Over the past five years, I've gone to the fair here in Jackson, which is a good bit smaller but definitely has its own I can't site specific details at the moment because my mind is clouded with the thought of the free Angel biscuits smothered with honey…


There have been several fair engagement shoots online and it seemed like the perfect time and such a fun thing to do. My only concern is the weather – just when I got excited about the cooler weather, it's going to be in the mid-80s today!! The humidity is already creating a hostile environment outside. My mother is a weather channel fanatic and I never check it (which is going to change in about 30 seconds).


The forecast for Monday is 76 degrees and partly cloudy. It's much cooler over the weekend. Why, oh, why can't it just be in the 50s or 60s? I hate to be shallow but it totally messes up my wardrobe plans for the shoot. Ah, here's some good news: the low is going to be 59, so I just might get my wish.


More to come on my trip to Indianola where I had the pleasure to meet the self-proclaimed "fastest bicycle rider in Indianola" during my ramblings on Church Street, and also my travels to the Cleveland-area food places.


Another exciting announcement: You're looking at the new monthly "Edibles" Writer for Portico Jackson Magazine! I've been writing arts and culture articles for them since July and am looking forward to writing about local food places. Yay!

01 October 2009

I {heart} the Mississippi Delta

I have a great pin fastened on my bag that says "I {heart} the Mississippi Delta."

That's where I am going tomorrow: Indianola, Greenwood and Greenville. I've driven through lots of times on my way to Arkansas, but haven't stopped long enough to explore.

I'm meeting up with co-workers at the B.B. King Museum, lunch at Club Ebony, seek out hot tamales and koolickles and make lots of notes on restaurants.

Lovely fall-ish weather rolled in this week with sunny skies and lower humidity. That's all a Southern girl can ask for is good travel weather so I can roll the windows down and have faith in the prayer: "Please give my hair some body this week." (humidity=lifeless hair)

I can only aspire to be as prolific and well-traveled as my new friend, Deep Fried Kudzu. Terrific blog and super sweet person.

It is my last hurrah before the Delta Culinary itineraries are officially published at the end of the month, God willing. Ha!

26 September 2009

Faulkner Said it Best...

"I've discovered that my own little postage stamp
of native soil was worth writing about
and that I would never live long enough to exhaust it."
- William Faulkner

(I stole this from Mary Straton's page, although she stole it from Faulkner
but I'll never tell...ha!)

05 September 2009

Going to the Chapel

Prepare yourself for exclamation points.
They are, at this time, a necessity.


The Culinary Trail will be launched at the end of October. October is next Thursday (!!) and Friday I will head to the Delta for some exploring and meet up with work folks a visit to Indianola and Club Ebony. Can't wait for that. I also really need to go to French Camp and cover the sorghum making demonstrations the next day, too.


Dallas is the official destination weekend after next for my bridal shower with QB's family/friends and then it's back in town for an engagement shoot; which also translates into mama needs a couple of new outfits.

When QB and I got engaged, I made a silent promise to myself - more like a mental note, actually - that the blog would not become a shrine to the almighty wedding. There are enough wedding blogs saturating the market already.

Well, maybe just this once...!! Martha Stewart tells me there are 63 days to go. Yipe!

I've been slammed lately working a few different jobs - the main one still being th
e Tourism job that is my absolute favorite ever, filling in for my old employer, doing some PA work on a commercial shoot and whatever odds and ends I can find. Needless to say, QB and I are taking turns freaking out, which works out quite well in the scheme of things. The fit is hitting the wedding shan, lemme tell you that. Not really but we're just feeling the time crunch and on more than one occasion a potential vendor heard these words, "Honestly, I am SO over wedding planning!" (where I want to r-u-n-n-o-f-t.)

Initially, we set the date for May 15, 2010. We both liked the idea of a spring wedding but I thought, A whole year?! As the summer wore on and my job changed (along with my finances), we realized that having a larger wedding in May would cost more as the ideas and guest list grew.

And, having the wedding in May also kept us waiting to make the commitment we want to make to each other. We both started getting impatient.

We planned on having our parents here to meet and celebrate Thanksgiving and it occurred to us, "Well, why don't we just go ahead and get married?!" So, there it was. The prospect of getting married six months before the date we decided...and in a matter of three months!

The planning process, which includes crunching as much as we can into as small a time frame as possible, hasn't been as stressful as we thought it might be (well, you know).

Technically, I feel like everything should have been t
aken care of yesterday, but other than the moments of feeling sheer panic and urgency, with everything working out like we need it to, it's calming me down a little. Perhaps it's because the date falls on a holiday weekend that it has been so free and clear on vendors' schedules.

Ceremony Location: check! Reception Location: Check!
DJ: Check! Rehearsal Dinner: Check!

Owl Motif: Check!

Colors: Think of peacock feathers and jewel tones of copper, deep teal and brown.
Bridesmaids Dresses: I don't care! Pick a color and wear whatever you want! My Dress: check! Ordered it Monday. Gotta buy my shoes and this below is the pair I have been drooling over for at least a month.
Favors...do we really need them? Eh, we'll get sumpthin, don't worry.

Our photographer, Erin Fults, is available!! That was one of our biggest concerns since we already paid the deposit in July. She takes incredible photographs and we can't wait for her to shoot our wedding photos. Both ceremony and reception location are going to be great places to get some cool shots. Our engagement session is going to be at the state fair! FUN!!

(Just today, Erin conducted a photography workshop that was absolutely incredible. It was a fun group of people. My know-how light bulb went from a pathetic flicker to a more dim glow. We're getting somewhere!)

We booked and will book as many local vendors as possible, such as our new friend Neola owns Viva La Cupcake. She will make our cupcakes for the reception. We had a tasting two weeks ago and they are delicious. We are going to serve both red velvet cupcakes and German Chocolate cake cupcakes. The cake of both flavors had a lovely texture, were soft and moist (isn't that a hated word?). Both of them weren't overwhelmingly sweet like some cupcakes can be which was a heavenly compliment to their icing/topping. YUM.

A good film festival friend has old letterpress machines and our invitations are underway. Despite my better judgment, perhaps, I'm going to do the calligraphy myself.

Now, as for catering, that's been our one hitch. The guy who we thought was going to do it is MIA so we're going to be meeting people this week. That's a little disappointing because we had our hearts set on him. I'm still working on the flowers/decoration part, too. Waiting on getting a couple of quotes back and then maybe doing a little ourselves. We shall see.

So, I will report more upon my visit to the Delta later this week with my new improved photog skills!

Speaking of new and improved, I created my very own banner via Scrapblog
thanks to the recommendation of my co-worker, Mary Straton. If only I'd known about this, oh, say SIX MONTHS AGO!!! But nevertheless, I am thankful for it. Though I will still keep my "SoulsvilleUSA" theme, Grits and Soul is the new domain and title, taken from a James Brown instrumental album. More on that later.
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